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[–] safetyaccount1 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I feel your pain. It must be tough serving your country only to find out that she took your child and did all these horrible things.

My ex approached this differently by paying people to make my life miserable for the last 10 years. She interfered with my relationships, drained my bank account, refused to help support our child, and she created constant turmoil in my life. Recently I see her ramping up on brain washing my daughter. Much of this was with court sanctioned actions and the funding from her father.

I do hope your relationship with your son is now on good standing.

[–] safetyaccount1 0 points 1 year ago

Correction on this. I was not accused of sexual abuse. That's the one thing I was not accused of. I know the sentence makes it sound as though I was.

[–] safetyaccount1 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Thanks for the reply. I didn't even think of that. This is similar to that show, but it doesn't have a happy ending.

 

Dear Daughter,

Today I went out with your mom on our first date. I have to admit I was very excited afterward. She is everything that I have been looking for in a woman. She is beautiful, friendly and successful and she really seemed interested in me too. I have to admit I pressed our date by forcing your mom to walk to the pier while she wore high heels. I have to say that she looked like she was straining by the end of the date. She kept her composure and was a real trooper about it. I did apologize afterward though. I really hope to see her again soon. Perhaps on our next date I will try to impress her by cooking dinner for her. That's if she agrees to go on one, though. Anyway, I'm so happy about our date that I've told all my friends how well it went. I'm even keeping our first emails. [EXHIBIT A]

Love, Your Dad

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/5347855

As I sit here, writing this letter in the quiet solitude of my room, my heart aches with a profound sadness that words alone cannot fully convey. There's a hollowness within me, an emptiness that only your presence can fill. I miss you more than words could ever express.

You may not know this, but every day without you feels like an eternity. Each morning, I wake up hoping to hear your laughter, see your bright smile, and share in the joy of your growing years. But instead, I often find myself immersed in the deafening silence of an empty house.

It's been so many long years since the day you came into my life. The day of your birth brought great happiness to me. I was overjoyed when I first saw you and a profound exhilaration came over me and I cried with happiness. I've watched you grow into a remarkable young person. Your curiosity, your kindness, your boundless energy—all of it has been a source of immeasurable pride and joy for me. And as you've grown, so has the love and admiration I hold for you.

Certain external actions, beyond my control, have cast shadows on our relationship. These circumstances have been a heavy burden on my heart, and I wish there was a way to shield you from the harsh realities of the world. Life sometimes takes us on unexpected journeys, and I desperately wish I could have shielded you from this particular one.

But now, circumstances have separated us, and I can't help but feel a deep longing to be with you, to hold you close and let you know just how much you mean to me. Often despite the fact that you are close to me physically, I feel that we have drifted miles apart as a result of these falsehoods. Life has a way of taking us down different paths, and sometimes those paths lead us away from the ones we cherish most.

Please know, my beloved daughter, that my love for you is unwavering and unconditional. No matter where life may lead us, that love remains a constant in my heart. I carry your laughter, your dreams, and your spirit with me every day no matter where our lives take us.

As you continue to grow into the amazing person I know you will become, remember to hold onto the love we share and the memories we've created together. Life may take us down different paths, but the bond between a father and his daughter can endure the greatest challenges.

Love, Your Dad

[–] safetyaccount1 2 points 1 year ago (6 children)

For those that might be interested. This will be my journal going forward. Aside from accusing me of sexual abuse, her mom (and her family) have done everything possible to eliminate me as being anything of importance to our daughter's life. I will be referencing the past and the future to journal the things that her mom has done to make the father-daughter relationship difficult. I know one day our daughter may want to see what her mother has done. I will show her if she starts to ask questions.

I am not your person. I am not your ex. The chances that you know me is almost impossible. If you do use this as evidence in court I will pursue a cease and desist and/or restraining order. At which point I will seek full custody for harassment and file criminal charges for computer and phone hacking under 18 U.S. Code § 1030.

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