Neurodivergence

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All things neurodivergent and relating to the broader neurodivergent community (and communities).

See also this community's sister subs Feminism, LGBTQ+, Disability, and POC

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Parenting a Neurodivergent child (beehaw.org)

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Who here is parenting an ND child?

Has finding out their diagnosis also led to you or their other parent to a late diagnosis?

Any resources you'd like to share with the community?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

For me, it was traumatic in the short term, but liberating in the long term and I chose it for myself.

In the short term, it was traumatic because it meant everything I thought I knew about myself was wrong. When you get to your 30's, you have a pretty set in stone view of who you are and why you do things. Realizing that I'm autistic shattered that self view. Suddenly, reasons why I thought I did many things were wrong and were replaced by other reasons.

This was traumatic, but I eventually (over a few months) rebuilt my sense of self to include autism. This rebuilt sense of self was stronger than before. Thus, the short term trauma led to longer term benefits for me.

Would I want to go through this sense of self shattering again? No, but I'm glad I went through it then.