I don't go at a frequent enough schedule to recognize the cashiers, I'm sure it's the same for them
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I'll just leave this here. Note this is also SF, a horrible place to drive: https://waymo.com/safety/
Brand awareness gets you subconsciously
You have a point but dude throwing everything in the fridge between two thinly sliced pieces of bread is amazingly delicious
There's a lot of micro-aggressions and straight up aggressions in this post, but honestly your comment strikes the biggest nerve for me. It genuinely shows that a portion of the world don't consciously see women as business owners
Yikes dude, hope you got a dashcam
Same boat. I'm yet to find a good response to that. On one hand, I want to be like "haha yea", but on the other hand, I want to be modest and not comment on it.. Which is just like an awkward silence. I usually just say something like "oh yea I used to live here" but even that feels like oversharing :p
So I tend to dress "well". I'm not great at fashion, but I shave every morning, force myself to spend a bit of money on nice tshirts, etc.
On the weekends though, I let it all go. I go out to the store in my PJs, I don't shave, I wear my hat and hoodie up, and to be honest look a bit like a thug. I notice people on the street are a little less comfortable walking by, however...
One thing that stood out insanely was the grocery store. When I dress like a homeless person, it is night and day difference:
- Cashier keeps the checkout stuff closer to them
- While my card transaction is pending, if I start loading stuff in my bag they're like "oh, oh wait.. It's still pending"
- Even when I start the small-talk ("How is your day going?"), responses are short
When I dress well:
- Cashier doesn't mind when I start loading my backpack even before paying
- Cashiers always smile and ask how my day is
I was planning on writing a blog post about it (plug to [email protected]), but wanted to get more data points first
Crypto. Works great for everything I previously used PayPal for
Edit: lmao people mad. For what it's worth BTC is screwed by txn fees and ETH isn't much better, and there's the whole scam thing going around, but crypto is still the best libre banking.