Fuzzyapathy

I do at least. I joined the site after most posting had drastically slowed down - a little before Wander mostly disappeared. When there's only a half dozen names, you tend to notice.

It's unfair how jealous this makes me 😿

Sorry to hear it didn't meet your expectations, but at the very least you can make an informed decision next time around if it comes down to it. At least you got a nice walk out of it!

A lot of the female chastity stuff I end up coming by in the wild usually has either religious or DD/lg overtones to them, which are a narrow niche in the general sexual sense. I also feel like the power dynamic behind it doesn't work as well inherently as male chastity because it ultimately plays off of patriarchal gender role dynamics.

Bummer, but these things happen. Hope you still ended up having a good day at least!

Yeah that's pretty steep if you're not super into it. You'd probably have more fun than you think though so just don't let anxiety ruin what could be a pretty fun time!

That's fair, but you can do those any other time 🙂 Just pointing out that you don't need to do anything you're uncomfortable with or even talk to anyone if you don't want to to have fun doing something. Sometimes just exploring and being in a new environment is rewarding enough.

You can go and just enjoy the day by yourself and in your own way. No talking to stranger required unless you want to! Sometimes just a change of scenery can be just what you need.

I don't "consume this kind of content," but I'd be lying if I said I'd never looked sometimes so I do get it on some level. The real answer is mostly that the videos you're seeing are click bait marketing and probably intended(for lack of a better word) for a younger audience.

However, sexual feelings aren't exclusively related to physical attraction. Porn is very much an impersonal and mechanical medium for sexual feelings. Someone who you have familiarity with being a really cool person can elicit so much better of an experience than a random porn video in a lot of occasions. It goes back to the para social relationship linked in another comment and there's a reason Onlyfans and things like it are so popular.

I think I liked A Show of the Ropes more, but this was really cute too! Honestly any kind of bedroom bdsm is usually pretty sweet because the dynamic doesn't work unless the couple is communicative, trusting and open and it ends up as a cute storyline as long as it's drawn well.

Sometimes simplicity is best

Holy crap. This was wonderful! Thanks for sharing it!