Since most of these questions will be of the NSFW kind, I will take the opportunuty to ask something completely different.
What is your favourite computer game?
Oh, and let me just send you a photo of a 50s rail bus on a herritage railroad in Sweden, it is just nice.
My favourite game I'd say is probably Stardew Valley and thank u. It's a very pretty carriage tbf
Do you also find quartz to be delicious?
Do you get a lot of opportunity to indulge your kinks? If so, do you live in a major city?
Sadly I don't. I've only really had a chance to do stuff once but other than that, I don't really get a chance which is pretty annoying
Yea outside of a small number of experiences with a like minded friend who is no longer available I haven't had much of a chance to explore that side of myself either
It's annoying because even after finding someone who is into it, there are always weirdos or people who u feel u can't trust too much with u being that vulnerable
Yea. I mean I'm a dude so slightly less of a concern for me compared to yourself but still concerning.
I live in a fairly isolated town so it's not impossible for me to get to events but a little difficult and expensive. Other events and stuff to spend money on always come up. I did go to a Torture Garden event once, but that was over 10 years ago 😱
I live in the Uk and Kink events aren't really a thing here, at least I haven't seen any about or advertised etc.
I'm in England, the north specifically. Kink events do happen in the UK but they're rare and mostly in London or Birmingham.
How often do you get flirted by others?
Is your friend circle composed mostly of similarly-minded goths, or a funny mix of all sorts?
Do you talk to your friends about said niche bondage kinks you have?
I'd say maybe 4/5 times on a night out I'll get flirted with. I am the only goth in my friend group really haha I have spoken to them about my sex life but not these specific kinks
What is it about being goth that you enjoy? As I've aged, I've found it difficult to maintain professional employment while having a gothic style. Depends on the field, but most places frown on it.
Idk tbh, I'm the manager at a hotel so I've never really had any problems with finding employment but I can see why it could be difficult. I just think people's personal lives and the way they dress etc. shouldn't be a reason to refuse them employment in general