I have a two question https://perchance.org/ai-character-chat:

1. What should I write in the character sheet as, for example, instructions or in a reminder note, so that the character behaves more naturally? What I mean is that very often characters add insertions in their dialogues that are repeated, making their statements unnatural and irritating in role playing, e.g. like that they have to focus on the mission, or if it was written earlier that they have to make a first impression at an upcoming party, the character keeps throwing in dialogues that include that they have to change or pull out clothes. Or it is written that it is afternoon and the party will be in the evening and the narrator writes as if it were already happening, leaving aside other events that might have taken place between afternoon and this evening.

2. What instructions should I write so that a character, e.g. Bob, who is just getting to know a character, e.g. Ela, gradually learns information about Ela from her or from other characters who speak about her. So that Bob collects information about her and bulid the relationship with her and not so that a situation occurs in which I introduce a new character and Bob already speaks as if he had known her for a long time and knows everything about her.