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[–] [email protected] 28 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Here's how it works: You pay a sizeable chunk of money each month to the car insurance company, because it is almost certainly not legal for you to not do so.

Then your car gets into an accident.

If the other person has insurance, you get to endure a lengthy, tedious, possibly formal court room dispute about which person is at fault and who's insurance pays for what.

If the other person doesn't have insurance, they will probably flee the scene and you may not even be able to prove to your insurance that it wasn't your fault, or that your insurance is liable for anything.

If the damage is significant, It will almost certainly leave you without a functioning vehicle for weeks or months, and this is rarely compensated, enjoy your carless commute.

Also, in all these situations, unless you are paying significantly for actual insurance with good coverage (don't mean to be rude but you're driving a Hyundai Elantra so probably you can't afford that), then what you are paid in compensation will be about 50 to 75 % of what the repairs will actually cost, and/or the mechanics doing the repair will not fully repair your car or fuck up some other part of your car in the process, so you basically have to learn how to do their job for them to doublecheck their work.

Thats how cars and car insurance work in America, if you want an explanation from anyone who isn't a car mechanic or car insurance employee.

EDIT: Oh, forgot some important things:

Post accident your monthly rates will almost certainly go up, doesn't matter if it wasn't your fault.

Also if you or another person were seriously injured, you, as a most likely fairly poor Hyundai Elantra driver most likely unable to pay for substantial medical coverage, will now get to endure another unimaginably stressful battle between car insurance and now also health insurance and hospital billing teams, which is highly likely to result in you being personally liable for either your own or the other driver's medical costs.

Potentially while you are in a full body cast, in a hospital, about to be fired from your job if you don't completely heal and get back to work in a week or two.

Or passengers, or pedestrians could have been injured, both of which are basically silo'd into optional dlc for what you thought you (and the other car owner) were paying for but actually aren't, unless you spent multiple hours going over the fine print of your insurance contract, but even then it might not matter as insurance agencies themselves decide what they cover, and you would have to sue them, with even more money you don't have, to attempt to get them to follow their own contract if they decide they don't want to.

Oh and property damage to not your car and not another car (say you crash into a storefront or run over someone's fancy phone and they sue you over it, or back into something and damage it) is its whole own other silo as well.

Oh, and if your car has a manufacturing defect which causes a failure, you're also basically SoL in terms of your insurance covering repairs or replacement. Car insurance doesn't usually cover that whatsoever.

That's all between you and the dealer and the car manufacturer and you keeping up with regular updates on your specific model of car.

Oh you bought it used, personal title transfer, no dealer?

Almost certainly SoL from a warranty (or total lack thereof) perspective.

[–] kewwwi 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] kewwwi 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] TotallynotJessica 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] kewwwi 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

I'm quite autistic, infodumping/mansplaining is my passtime.

Short version is: Car insurance is a mandatory, required part of your life if you want to leave the trash heap disassociation zone, but if you're poor, it and everything else about cars in America is basically a legal scam.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Who even r u an y r u so mean 2 me >:3

[–] kewwwi 1 points 1 week ago

(≧ω≦。)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Welcome to America baaaabyyyyyyyyyy!!!

Metric had it right over a decade ago:

Drive a car to go to work to pay for gas to drive a car to go to work.

EDIT: i got the lyrics a bit off, but yeah.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Someone hit my 10 year old Prius so hard the wheel came off. I was drunk. I wasn’t in it. It was parked on the street. I was playing video games.

My insurance gave me about 8k USD. I was NOT expecting that. I paid 10k for it years before. I expected maybe 3k.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Some thief broke into my car and stole it. My insurance was like, "Wow, they totalled it. Here's $5000."

I didn't bother to tell them that the car was hot garbage and was probably a junker after a year or two. So that thief made me money.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Saaaame, my AC was dead and I tried to get it fixed, it just died again. I got all that money towards my current wonderful car that I’ve had for five years and is paid off. I love you, car. Also insurance company.. you’re alright.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Honestly I'm just happy for you, myself and basically everyone I've ever known just gets scammed by car insurance.

As an aside, when you had the Prius, would any (non absurdly overpriced dealer) mechanics even touch it, beyond a basic oil change or tire rotation?

I used to have a Prius C and 95% of mechanics would just go, nope, hybrid scary, me no understand, no touch no fix cuz maybe I break it worse.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I had my AC fixed when it broke, but nothing else went wrong with it. It was a regular Prius. I loved him so much. The AC died shortly after it was fixed. I was thinking of having it (attemptedly) fixed again, when he died.

My new car is five years old and paid off. I love her so much. I am so thankful for my insurance experience—it’s the only time I’ve dealt with them. I do feel very lucky.

Quick edit: I hope your experiences are as good as mine in the future.

[–] FenrirIII 2 points 1 week ago

Going through this process now. It's true. All of it.

[–] Hildegarde 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I want someone really rich to punch me in the face so I can make some money.

[–] Hildegarde 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I don't think it works that way but im too silly to research it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

If suing doesn't work, I'm sure I could make something on a Kickstarter for "Leon Brunch punched me in the face and won't pay my hospital bills!"

[–] Hildegarde 2 points 2 weeks ago

How dare you. Leon is an upstanding celebrity who would never do such a thing.

[–] stupidcasey 12 points 2 weeks ago

They take your money or you go to jail, how is it that hard to understand? It’s the same for most things in life.

Taxes? They take your money or you go to jail.

Housing? They take your money or you go to jail

Doctors are a bit different, They take your money or you die.

[–] KellysNokia 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

If you are unsure in a crash, call your insurer and ask them for steps (sometimes it's on the card). Don't be pressured to skip those steps, if anyone disagrees tell them "I'm just doing what it says on the insurance"

Don't ever admit fault, even if you think it is your fault (sometimes it's not!!), let insurance and lawyers figure it out. It's generally ok to talk to other party to make sure their health is OK. Take lots of photos of the scene.

Unsolicited advice - get a dashcam. I've heard stories change many times as they flow through the claims process and evidence helps stops things becoming unfair.