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[–] Pronell 26 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Told his ex-girlfriend the truth as she deserved better than him. (And no, I didn't want her for myself.)

It sent his life into a tailspin, and he's done jail time since then.

I've heard he's back in town but haven't seen him. We made up before he moved back but I'm sure he still holds it against me.

[–] Rhynoplaz 15 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That sucks, but, without knowing what you told her, it sounds to me like they dealt with the consequences of their own actions, not yours.

[–] Pronell 12 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

For sure, but the information I gave was sensitive and drove a rift through our group of friends.

We were all stoners. I told her about the other drugs she didn't know about.

I have no regrets. I held by my values.

[–] Lifecoach5000 7 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Just a wild guess - but did he do jail time for the other drugs?

[–] Rhynoplaz 13 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That's what I'm guessing. Pronell didn't send a friend to jail, he saved a girlfriend from going with him.

[–] Pronell 5 points 6 months ago

Yeah, as I said it was living up to my values. He was a piece of work and she was a sweet girl.

I hope she's happy. I've heard she is, but I haven't stayed in touch.

[–] Pronell 6 points 6 months ago

No, years later, he was managing a shoe store and embezzling. I don't know many details, it was across the state.

Dude had problems.