Lemmy for Lemmy

Hey, thought I'd put myself out there. I'm a guy in my 30s. I'm playful and dorky, but I still know how to settle down and have a serious conversation. I'm a Jesus follower, but totally fine if that's not your thing and would love to meet you anyway. Just know that I probably won't be pursuing marriage if that's the case.

I'm an introvert (as most Lemmy folks are, I'm sure). Ideally for someone younger than me, but if you're older, go ahead and reach out--I won't mind. I work out every day and hike when I can. I love the outdoors, hate the city, and love going on adventures (with or without clothes, lol). I'm someone who can find adventure in the mundanity of life. And I have a huge long list of fun date ideas--I just need someone to come along for the ride. 😝

I should probably also note I'm a virgin and will remain one until I'm married. I'm totally fine if you're not a virgin. For a potential partner I'm looking for someone who loves Jesus, appreciates humor, and has an active lifestyle (not necessarily a gym rat, but someone who can go hiking/running without being out of breath would be great).

Even if you don't feel that's you but I sound like an interesting dude, feel free to reach out. Always down for meeting new people.

Interested? Feel free to reach out by sending me a DM!

I'm not entirely sure how this will work here, but hey, I'll give it a shot. There's this idea that introverts are shy, and that's absolutely not the definition at all. Are there shy introverts? Absolutely. I bring that up because way back in the day, when I found myself in a social situation with music, it was I who would be the first on the dance floor...

So, I guess I'll be the first Lemmy to put myself out there. We're all here - all 40 of us - because we're done with Reddit, but that doesn't mean we're done with seeking out like-minded folks to connect with, right?

I'm an inflexible weirdo who doesn't meet social norms and rarely fit into gender stereotypes except that I'm an emotional lady who thinks everything tiny is cute. If it's tiny, it's cute, with few exceptions (ahem, bed bugs, gtfo! you don't belong in this equation).

I like football, I don't like gaming, I like baseball, I don't like anime, I love comedy, I don't like sci-fi. You get the gist.

I am a diagnosed Autist with ADHD and a slew of other 'issues', and yet, I've made it this far. My anxiety prevents me from reaching out to local people as I'd rather take the time to get to know someone online, and dating apps attract the opposite type of people. I'm in no rush to meet someone IRL, but that doesn't mean the desire isn't there to do so eventually. Perhaps you can relate?

If so, please reach out. At the very least, I've hopefully gotten the posting started so others will begin to search for their own Lemmy. :)