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What's the most seeming trivial thing you'll turn down a GF or BF for? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 4 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] KISSmyOSFeddit 18 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (7 children)

Pointy shoes with high heels.

They destroy your feet, make walking long distances impossible and show me she values unhealthy beauty standards over her own body.

Also, shaved and re-drawn eyebrows, for similar reasons.

[–] laughterlaughter 21 points 4 months ago (4 children)

Guys, I don't necessarily agree with what OP said (I didn't downvote him, though), but why are you downvoting him for freaking answering the question?!! The question says "a trivial thing," (not "a reasonable thing") and OP answered with a trivial thing. Vote accordingly.

This is like downvoting unpopular opinions in a thread about unpopular opinions.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

They're probably being downvoted for making a huge leap just from wearing pointy highheels lol. They turned a trivial reason into a non-trivial characterization/flaw about a person.

[–] laughterlaughter 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I don't know, man. If you dismiss someone for anything trivial, chances are you are judging their whole character to the point of not even dating them.